Sex is natural? Is everyone pass through it, including who are pure?

Yes sex is natural. There are impulse of sexual desire. But, all kind sense pleasure are temporary and it’s attachments. Anything beyond necessity is poison. To avoid poison first step is to think at time of experiencing that sensual pleasures that whatever sensual pleasures you enjoy is long lasting or temporary or whether it gives blissful peace? Once you start contemplate on it and try to understand it then slowly you loose interest on that sensual pleasures. When sexual pleasures become addiction then it called lust. Sex is not bad until it’s meaningful or not lust.

Sex is not love. Love is also not attachment but it’s care and understanding. Unfortunately mostly people fall in love because of looks, attraction, romance and status. Then marriage convert to expectations instead of understanding and care and Social status becomes important for marriage.

These all thing happened because people don’t think much or not contemplate on it. And then life becomes disasters. As age grows people get understand that love is care and understanding because no one get enough time for share care and understanding. I advise plan accordingly in life consider life partner as best friend not social status. Life is not profit and loss statement but sharing caring and living in moment.

Everything is upto mindset and thought process. To live life happily one must accept life and its situations (with efforts toward right) without much expectations but live in moments.